What do you believe about your body, and is it true?
So many of us carry beliefs about our movement that we've never questioned, such as “I'm just not coordinated. I've always been stiff. My family all has bad backs. Of course things hurt more as I get older.”
These beliefs can feel like settled f...
When podcaster Andrew Huberman recently interviewed Cesar Millan, it got me thinking about how differently people approach relating to their animals, and how most of those conversations stop at the wrong question.
What if the key to changing your horse's or dog's behavior isn't changing the behavio...
There's a reason the Feldenkrais MethodⓇ asks you to move slowly and keep things small, at least at first. It's not about being cautious or holding back. It's about creating the conditions your nervous system needs to actually learn.
In this episode, Mary Debono breaks down one of the most foundati...
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There's a phrase at the heart of Mary Debono's hands-on work with animals: "We ask questions with our hands. We don't make demands."
In this episode, Mary explains what that principle looks like in practice, using two clear, real-world examples. First, a senior dog whose hind legs had been getti...
What if one unexpected moment with your horse challenged everything you thought you knew about connection?
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In this episode, I share a personal story involving my beloved Appaloosa, Spotzy, that began as a simple experiment during a quiet ride and quickly became something I never could have antic...
Most of us have absorbed a story about aging, one that treats decline as a foregone conclusion, for ourselves and for our horses and dogs. But that story leaves out something important.
In this episode, Mary Debono makes a compelling case that how we age is far more within our influence than our cu...
Most of us have absorbed a story about aging, one that treats decline as a foregone conclusion, for ourselves and for our horses and dogs. But that story leaves out something important.
In this episode, Mary Debono makes a compelling case that how we age is far more within our influence than our cu...
Why does improving your own movement and awareness matter when helping your horse or dog?
In this episode, I share why the human side of this work is not optional. After a conversation with a horse owner who wanted to learn “just the techniques” without exploring her own awareness or movement, I re...
Whether your dog is aging, recovering from surgery, or simply deserves the best foundation possible, this episode explores how gentle hands-on support can help reduce tension, improve movement, and create greater ease, confidence, and well-being.Â
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- Many dogs develop habitual movem...
Autopilot is efficient, until it isn't. Most of us move through our days holding unnecessary tension, shortchanging our breath, and repeating patterns that work against us. Our horses and dogs do the same.
But there's one concept that can begin to shift all of it: slow is smooth, smooth is fast.
I...
Trying to “fix” stiffness, crookedness, or other movement issues often creates more guarding. In this episode, learn why physically supporting what your horse already does can help the nervous system feel safe, release habitual tension, improve movement, and deepen trust.Â
Applying this concept can...
What if your strong desire to help your dog is making it harder to help them?
It sounds counterintuitive, but when we become attached to a specific outcome, we often bring hidden effort, worry, and mental rigidity into the interaction.
And your dog feels all of it.
In this episode, I explore why ...
