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Balanced, Flexible and Confident Together
A Step-by-Step Program to Help You and Your Horse Discover Easier Movement, Relaxed Confidence and a Joyful Partnership
This one-of-a-kind coaching program can help you AND your horse reduce the effects of aging, arthritis, injuries or anxiety.
So you and your horse can enjoy moving through life. Together.
Yes, I Want This!You want your horse to be happy and healthy
You recognize the value of supporting your horse HOLISTICALLY, rather than chasing symptoms.
And you don't hesitate to look within. Could you be contributing to your horse's stiffness, tension or resistance?
Is your tension, achiness or anxiety affecting your horse?
Is your horse paying the price for your unbalanced seat and crooked position?
Knowing that YOU play a big role in your horse's well-being, you're always looking to enhance your balance, flexibility and confidence.
You're not alone.
If you feel that you're not always balanced in the saddle, that your confidence is shaky (at best!), that you're not as supple as you once were...you're not alone.
If you're committed to keeping your horse sound, supple and happy, you're in good company.
And if your relationship with your horse is more important than winning a blue ribbon, you're in the right place!

Imagine you could...
Feel More Balanced, Flexible and Confident - Effortlessly!
Help Your Horse Move with Relaxation, Coordination and Balance
Understand and Bond with Your Horse on a Deeper Level 💗
INTRODUCING Balanced, Flexible and Confident Together!

We're ready to help you and your horse have more balanced, fluid movement, a relaxed mind and a joyful connection.
This one-of-a-kind approach helps you AND your horse reduce the effects of aging, arthritis, injuries or anxiety.
So you and your horse can enjoy moving through life. Together.
Yes, I Want This!You'll discover how to...

You'll improve your body awareness, flexibility and coordination by doing gentle, powerful exercises that are based on the Feldenkrais Method®.
These unmounted exercises are also designed to improve your ability to do the hands-on work with your horse.

You'll learn to control your thoughts and mindset. No matter what's going on around you, you'll have the tools to exchange anxiety for a relaxed, mindful state. After all, your state of mind affects your horse.
And you'll know how to help your horse be more relaxed too!

Whether your horse is a new partner or old friend, you'll get to know your horse better than ever.
You'll learn why your horse may be stiff or resistant in one direction or find it difficult to pick up a canter lead. Or why your horse gets irritated when you start tacking up.

You'll know how to use simple, effective hands-on techniques to improve your horse's body awareness and promote balanced, flexible movement that reduces wear and tear and promotes soundness.
You'll understand the keys to efficient movement, so you can support healthy movement for you and your horse.

There's a sense of joy and lightness that's created when you use your hands and heart to connect with a horse.
It's that magical moment when new movement options suddenly become possible.
It's energizing. And literally heart-warming. I can't wait to teach you how to feel it too!

Decades ago, I had nerve damage, chronic pain and a poor prognosis. And did I mention I was stressed?
I'm so glad that I learned about biological optimism, the idea that virtually everyone, regardless of age or physical condition, can improve. My life transformed in wonderful ways. You and your horse can transform too.
Take a moment and imagine how it'll FEEL when...
Your horse consistently has that look in his eye that tells you that he enjoys spending time with you
You can experience your horse as an individual who has a unique set of life experiences, movement habits, injuries and emotions.
You know how to relieve your horse's tension and restore healthy, fluid movement. You love being able to give back to your horse!
You know how to support your horse. You skillfully use gentle, hands-on techniques to:
- Stimulate balanced, flexible movement
- Speed recovery from injury
- Encourage relaxation and responsiveness
- Make riding easier and healthier for your horse
- Create a positive learning state
- Build trust, confidence and partnership
And it's even more exciting when you realize that you know how to improve how YOU feel and move too!
Here's what we'll cover inside Balanced, Flexible and Confident Together - Level 1

Building a Relationship on Connection, Not Correction
One of the important concepts in this approach is that we connect with our horses and work with them to facilitate improvements, rather than correct or force change on them. We respect the horse's bodily intelligence. In this module, you'll learn WHY this strategy works so well.
When you know WHY you're doing an exercise or hands-on technique, it makes it so much more effective. This module will set you up for success!
As with all the modules, Module 1 includes Feldenkrais® Awareness Through Movement® (ATM) lessons to develop your awareness and improve your movement, so you'll experience the benefits too.

Developing Feel: Noticing Differences That Matter
Throughout this program, you'll learn how to generate improvements by retraining the brain. Your brain and your horse's brain.
And since brains learn by noticing differences, your ability to notice distinctions, especially small, subtle ones, is crucial.
In this module, you'll learn how to feel movement differences. You'll also discover how movement travels THROUGH your horse.
And you'll explore hands-on techniques that can help your horse have a relaxed, supple back and more efficient movement.
The module includes Feldenkrais® Awareness Through Movement® lessons for you too.

Reduce Tension, Increase Strength and Elegance
In this module, you'll learn how to help improve the mobility and flexibility of your horse's back, neck and rib cage. You'll understand how the rib cage affects muscular tension and movement throughout the whole horse!
Chronically contracted muscles don't just feel tight, they can cause stiffness, weakness and fatigue. You'll learn how to increase strength by increasing efficiency of your horse's movement.
You'll also enjoy Feldenkrais® Awareness Through Movement® lessons designed to enhance the awareness and mobility of your rib cage, which can lead to greater strength and resilience for you too.
Join before March 29 and get all 3 of these BONUSES:
Personalized Feedback
Want to make sure that you're doing the hands-on techniques effectively?
You can submit questions and videos in our private Facebook group and I (that's me, Mary) will give you personalized advice and feedback.
This is a great way to get my personal coaching so you can improve your skill and most effectively help your horse.
Value: $497

Workshop: Get Rid of Limiting Beliefs for Good!
We all have limiting beliefs about what we can do, what we deserve, how athletic or coordinated we are, etc. And they unconsciously hold us back.
In this workshop, you'll learn how to exchange limiting beliefs for empowering beliefs that help you become the person you truly want to be.
Value: $97

Handy Cheat Sheets
I don't know about you, but I LOVE a good cheat sheet! I like to see information summarized on a page.
You'll get PDF cheat sheets that summarize the lessons in the program. You can view them on your phone and computer. Or print them out and take them to the barn!
Video & audio downloads of the content are also provided.
Value: $97
Hi, I'm Mary Debono!
You know how people suffer from chronic aches, pains, stiffness or anxiety?
Well, I help people get their body and mind working together so well that they move through life with greater ease, flexibility, confidence and joy.
And I teach them how to help their horses do so too.
With 30 years of experience, I can say that virtually everyone, regardless of age or physical condition, can improve.
A life-long horsewoman, Certified Feldenkrais® Practitioner and Certified NLP Practitioner, I've been a featured presenter at numerous conferences and expos, including: Certified Horsemanship Association (CHA), Progressive Hoof Care Practitioners (PHCP), The Feldenkrais Conference and PATH Int'l.
I'm also a best-selling, award-winning author and international clinician.
In other words, I know a thing or two about improving human and equine movement.
And my #1 mission is to help you and your horse feel great in body and mind. So you can have loads of fun together.
Remember, you and your horse deserve to feel great. Together. I'd love to meet you inside the program!
Why You Should Consider Joining Now

Exceptional Value & Support
I hope you consider joining us now, as we don't plan to offer this program at such a low price again. It's only for this Founding Members' launch.
As a Founding Member, you'll get LIFETIME access to the course materials. And all future updates are yours at no extra cost!

Live Coaching
In addition to the course content that you'll have access to, you'll benefit from Mary's weekly group coaching and Q & A calls.
The calls will be recorded for your convenience.
All the course videos are searchable! This makes it oh-so-easy to find exactly what you're looking for.

Community
You'll have access to our private Facebook group during the coaching program. You can ask questions, post videos and discuss class material with with your fellow members.
Mary will also be in the group at least 5 days a week, answering your questions and cheering your successes.

This Program is NOT For:
- People looking for a quick fix. They don't want to take time to address their imbalances, stiffness or unhealthy mindset.
- People who treat horses like sports equipment, rather than as living, feeling beings.
- People who believe they're too old or too injured to improve. They fail to see the vast possibilities available to each one of us.
This Program is Perfect For You If:
- You're willing to invest a little time to improve your balance, flexibility and confidence and that of your horse. You and your horse are worth it.
- Your value your horse's well-being and want to do right by your horse.
- You're excited to improve along with your horse, knowing you'll not only feel better today, but you're setting the stage for a healthy, active future too.
Frequently Asked Questions
What's included in the program?
How is this program different from rider fitness programs?
I don't ride my horse. Can we benefit from the program?
When does the program begin and end?
Does this program help horses and humans of all ages, conditions and disciplines?
Can I get my questions answered in the program?
Do you have a refund policy?
How can I get in touch with Mary?
Why is the price so LOW???
Do I qualify to be a Founding Member and get this low price?
Testimonials for Mary's Programs

“I did a video in the barn aisle just before I rode. I had a great ride. I felt so solid in my seat and my horse finally gave me her back. I had the best sitting trot I’ve had in a very long time.”
Lisa Gorsuch, M.D.

“Mary has taught me that I don't have to endure any pain, that it is possible to be active, athletic and not have back pain! I could not recommend Mary more highly. She has changed my life!”
Kate Shuster, USDF Gold Medalist and dressage judge
“As an older rider with an older horse there are lots of habitual movement patterns that interfere with fluidity. When Mary breaks things down into small pieces new insight is possible as well as physical growth. Thank you, Mary!”
Cris Becker, M.D.

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Balanced, Flexible & Confident Together - Level 1
This 4-week group coaching program is the first in a series of programs that can help you and your horse reduce the effects of aging, injury, arthritis or anxiety.
This one-of-a-kind program can help you and your horse discover easier movement, relaxed confidence and a joyful partnership.
So you and your horse can enjoy moving through life. Together.
One Final Note
To improve yourself and your horse, don't just trust me. TRUST YOURSELF.
You have to trust that:
- You and your horse are worth the investment of a couple of hours or so a week.
- You are capable of improving your balance, flexibility and confidence. And that of your horse.
- Your future is in your hands. The choices you make today can determine how healthy and happy your tomorrows are.
- Whether or not you join our program at this time, you'll make the decision that's right for you. And your horse.
I'm here for you. Feel free to email [email protected]. I can help you decide if Balanced, Flexible and Confident Together is right for you.
xo, Mary

Seal of Quality

Balanced, Flexible and Confident Together - Level 1 is a unique program that was designed specifically with you in mind.
I know without a doubt that you'll get results with this program.
I'm so confident of this fact that if you don't feel more balanced, flexible or confident within the first 14 days of the program, just show me that you've done the exercises (we include a handy tracker worksheet) and I'll personally help you get over any hurdles.
Simply email [email protected], show me your work and we'll take care of you. We want you to succeed!
There are no refunds after April 19, 2021. Please see Terms for all the details.